Back in the days, a “Hi” with a smile was the reason for new friendships to begin. We all can agree on how easy it was to form friendships when we were kids. Back then, with no boundaries or limitations anyone was welcomed to be a friend. As we get older, a “Hi” becomes a form of greeting and the start of conversations with others. Moreover, with no certainty, it may be an open window for new friendships to start. With experience and maturity, each one of us came to his/her own conclusion on what is expected from a friendship and what are the characteristics or qualities that makes someone a friend. One of the blessings of a friendship is when a friend becomes a best friend whom is considered as a sister/brother.
Moments of silence …. As you listen to “No More Drama” song cover by Paige Thomas. which will be followed by a breaking news by Breaking News: The Death of a Star Pearl.
I am Breaking News: The Death of a Star Pearl. The best friend whom is considered as sister/brother is given privileges; passes (When you do not pay much attention to their mistakes), chances (by being patient with your best friend) and your forgiveness (even when he/she does not apologize). These privileges are taken for granted by some.
When you took the best approach while sharing with your best friend how her/his way of talking made you feel bad, how your feelings were hurt, how the passes, chances, forgiveness you been giving reached the end and that you been silent and ignoring, hoping he/she could take your silence as a warning.
What if the unpredictable happened?? What if your best friend took it in the wrong way, as an attack and pulled on her/his defensive mood? What if your best friend never considered or tried to understand your feelings? What if your best friend anger lead to you seeing his/her true colors? What if after all, you never knew your best friend as much as you thought you did?
“Broken heart again
Another lesson learn
Better know your friends
Or else you will get burn” Mary J. Blige
Breaking News: The Death of a Star
You may see yourself in a place where you have to break a dearest friendship “the high road approach”; Blue Island Freeze Pearl (https://wp.me/p8Brcb-FC). Where you focus on your own happiness. After all, who does not consider your feelings is not worth your time or energy. Truth is some friendships are like a star dead, yet their memories are still shining.